"Being single has its pros and cons. For me, the pros outweigh the cons. It’s probably bad for me to say that, huh? I do not care. Being single gives me the freedom to find out who I truly am."
Being single has its pros and cons. For me, the pros outweigh the cons. It’s probably bad for me to say that, huh? I do not care. Being single gives me the freedom to find out who I truly am. It gives me room to explore and not be so closed-minded. I get to interact with different men to find out what it is that I like and what I want in a man, a best friend, a lover, the father of my future kids, a life long lover.
I’m basically making my ideal lover. What I don’t like or appreciate that one man is doing, I know to add that to my list of boundaries that I will not tolerate. And they can either like it or keep it pushin’. The right one will come along and here is how I know. I am a great person, inside and out. When I am in any type of relationship (platonic as well) I only give out love. If I feel like can no longer give direct give love to a person, then that person is not adding to my life and at that point, they have to go.
Back to boundaries, have those boundaries and stick to them. Do not settle. Your person is out there, just like mine is but in the meantime I’ll tell you what I’m not going to do… I’m not going to sit around and mope. I’m going to enjoy this time to myself and the dating scene because one day I’ll be married and well we know how marriages can go… never- ending.
I’m just trying to get it as right as possible so that I’m not stuck with a maniac for the rest of my life. Now I can learn from my past mistakes and see those red flags so I can catch things early on. Why go through bullshit if we don’t have to?